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Today, I want to share "7 Things Successful Authors Don't Do".
1)
They
don’t waste time feeling sorry for themselves – rejections,
failure to receive income, lapse in publication, loss of contests, and watching others
achieve success can slow anyone down. Those feelings are normal. However,
successful authors don’t allow themselves to wallow in self pity - dwelling on
the past, especially when it comes to things they can’t control. They will
always keep going.
2)
They
don’t put all of their eggs in one basket – changes in
publishing needs, transitions to new editors, and even publication closures can
leave an author scrambling for their next paycheck if they don’t have multiple
projects in the works. Keep trying new venues. Always have more than one project to complete.
3)
They
don’t worry about pleasing everyone – there is no such
thing as perfect writing that everyone for all time will love. Someone will
always hate it, find themselves in the piece, or just have negative comments to
share. Successful authors are aware of “internet trolls” and they never let a
negative review by strangers, friends, or family keep them from following their
pursuit of publication. Never!
4)
They
don’t fear taking calculated risks – they don’t feel the
world owes them anything, just as they don’t fear success. Attention, whether
negative or positive (because the piece is loved or hated) can follow you. Just
remember, you’re not writing for others, but for yourself.
5)
They
don’t make the same mistakes over and over - they continue learning, improving, and seeking more. They are more focused on improving themselves, and their skills, than they are on what others are doing.
6)
They
learn to balance alone time and public forums - Most of us are introverts by nature. Some of us have a happy talent for the public eye, and are skilled at marketing and promotion. Some are just naturally likable people you want to support no matter their skill lever. Successful authors learn to do both - create great material, and share the news without becoming pushy salespeople. They also refuse to get lost in the social media zone, limiting their daily time online.
7)
They
don’t give up – they don’t expect immediate results.
They continue to learn, practice, and create. They are able to find fulfillment in the sheer joy of creation - not in the labels others provide. NEVER GIVE UP YOUR LOVE OF THE CRAFT!
