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I can hardly believe
it’s December already, and this is the last IWSG post of 2015. The pressure of
the season is already mounting. I’m feeling overwhelmed, and not yet enjoying
the Christmas cheer. How about you?
Perhaps it’s time for
a reflective mood, and a year-end review. We should take a breath, remember,
and be proud of what we’ve accomplished so far this year. DO NOT use this time
to stress about what you didn’t do. It’s not about judging yourself. Instead,
use this time to experience pride and gratitude. Remind yourself what you DID
accomplish. You’re still a writer and
reader, you haven’t given up, and hopefully you still find joy in exploring
your creativity.
How do I successfully perform a year-end review?
1)
Collect
all your writing in one-place - You will need a lot of room. If most of your writing is on your
computer, you might consider printing it out. Collecting everything into one
place may be the most difficult and rewarding piece of this process. The act of
simply handling your work from the last year will do magic for
the next.
2)
Read - Read a little of everything. Whether you
simply skim over everything, or dive deep into several pieces the outcome can
be just as rewarding. The goal is not to read everything, but instead to become
familiar again with what you’ve written.
3)
Enjoy - You are your own worst critic, but this is
not a time for critiquing. Read your writing out of a place of
appreciation instead of judgment. Rediscover the pleasure you found when first
creating these works.
4)
Categorize - As you read, you may notice themes in your
writing, images that come up again and again, or moods that you seemed to slip
into often. If you like, you can use highlighters or colored pens to visualize
these different themes, but simply noticing is enough.
5)
Consider - Why did you write what you did? Why these
pieces? Why these forms (blog posts/poems/novel chapters)? What
motivated you to write over the last year? Why were you drawn to this theme or
that image? Who are you as a writer? And what are you about?
6)
Forgive - You may find that you are unable to give up
judgment and enjoy your own writing. In this case, you must forgive yourself. Let
yourself out of the expectation of genius and perfection. Accept that the
year is what it is and choose to be content with it. Do not compare yourself to
others, or even yourself (What you’ve done in years past, or feel you should
have done this year). Only seek complete acceptance.
Don’t worry about goals,
that can come later (January 1st perhaps). For now, remind yourself
of why you like to write, and what you’ve been able to do so far. If you don’t appreciate
your own writing and abilities, how can you expect others to?
I hope you’ll try this. What did you accomplish
this year? Please remember to praise YOURSELF!
5 comments:
This is great advice. Sometimes it helps to just physically see what you've accomplished in front of you. Good luck in the coming year!
This is a really cool idea. I might just try this.
IWSG December
You know, that's a good idea. I'm sure I'd find common themes in all of my work.
This is a great idea! Just listing my accomplishments from the past couple months has helped me feel a little more confident with my writing.
Congratulations! I hope you all remember to appreciate yourselves during this hectic season.
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